So I had active passive ha working and then attempted to upgrade to the latest firmware. I saw an error that the auxiliary device didn't get the update and that ha was disabled. I rebooted the primary with the new firmware active. And I also rebooted the auxiliary which also had the new firmware. But ha is disabled. I can set it up again but I don't know how I got into this state and how to avoid it in the future.
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